Robert Grieve (Bert)
1938 to 2020
Cremation Service
Location
Borders Crematorium
Melrose
TD6 9HA
Date & Time
10:00am Fri 13th Mar 2020
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Condolences
Sandy wrote
13th Mar 2020
So sorry to read in Hawick Paper of your loss.Many happy times at your house in Duke Street Elliot.Your Mum and Dad were very kind to me after my Dad died. My thoughts are with you at this sad time.Sandy
Alastair wrote
10th Mar 2020
Sincere condolences for Margaret and Elliots sad loss of my cousin Bert many happy memoriesfrom Shankend days.Alastair
Attending a funeral FAQs
What should I wear?
We normally associate wearing black with going to a funeral. But it is increasingly typical for families to express a preferred dress code. Our advice is to look out for information from the family in a notice published either in newspapers, online or in the funeral director window to advise you of their preference.
How long does a service last?
Typically a service in most churches or crematoria lasts around 20-30 minutes. A formal mass may take a little longer and we would expect this to be nearer an hour. Finally, burials can vary in length as they are weather dependent.
Where should I sit?
Family and close friends typically reserve the first couple of rows in a service. We recommend sitting nearer the front than the back of a service space in order to support the family and enabling late arrivals to discreetly fill back rows.
Where should I send flowers?
Often a family will express a preference for flowers - or charity donations in lieu of flowers. We recommend you keep an eye on notices posted in newspapers, or online or in the funeral director window so you are able to follow their wishes.
