Audrey Lauder
1928 to 2019
Funeral Service
Location
St Cuthberts Scottish Episcopal, Hawick
Date & Time
1:30pm Tue 19th Feb 2019
Cremation Service
Location
Borders Crematorium
Melrose
TD6 9HA
Date & Time
3:00pm Tue 19th Feb 2019
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Condolences
Kenny wrote
13th Feb 2019
My condolences to all the family . God Bless . There will be another bright Star in the sky . Will be sadly missed .
Keith wrote
12th Feb 2019
I helped care for Audrey in buccleuch care home. A lovely lady always happy. She will be sadly missed.
Erika wrote
10th Feb 2019
Very sorry for your loss. Auntie Audrey was the "Glue" in the Family. May she Rest In PeaceðŸ™
tom wrote
8th Feb 2019
So sorry to hear about Audrey. Remembering the good times on the stair heids at Yarrow Terrace
Marion wrote
8th Feb 2019
So sorry to hear about Audrey.She was a lovely lady and a kind neighbour to us many years ago.Thinking of you all at this sad time.
Nancy wrote
8th Feb 2019
Soso sorry to hear this.Thoughts are with you and your family. Xxx
Angie wrote
8th Feb 2019
Sending my condolences to all the family...so sorry to hear the sad news about Audrey...such a lovely sweet lady....we had some great laughs and stories together...was always a pleasure going to Audreys house...RIP Audrey....love Angie xxx😥😘
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